I need critics!

[unluckymonkey.livejournal.com]

Tell me you hate me tell me I suck! I need critical advice about a site I'm building for my crafts. These are the facts: it's not a small site, it's not built for 800X600 but if that's your res please check it anyway it will work and the only thumbnails that work at this time are in the odds and ends section. Does it take too long to load? Is it uglee?distracting?

http://www.samiamru.com/crafts/site

Thanks for any input!
Sammy