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My sister died this morning in a car accident. She was 22 going on 23. She was not religious so I am planning a non-church service to be held at night. It will be in a park under the stars. We are thinking candle lights. I need ideas and links on sites that offer quotes so I can print memory cards on card stock. No 'god' stuff please. Also any rituals that would involve stars and suns (pagan or new age) we can do as a family.

For my mother I thought a signature book would be a good idea for the service. We are trying to locate her favorite things such as her song. I am trying to find a place online that sells small pieces of jade I can pass out with the cards. My sister's nick name was jade.

Can anyone please offer me advice. I have never done this before. I am sad and hurt and need to have this planned without asking my mom. She can't handle it now.

Thank you.