On behalf of my sister
Apr. 15th, 2007 01:26 am![[identity profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/openid.png)
My sister is learning to knit. Very much a beginner.
She wants to knit something for her five year old son, who chooses to grow his hair long but gets irritated with folks who get confused about his gender.
She wants to make him something that won't exacerbate the confusion. This isn't a debate of gender expression. She is WILLING to let him wear whatever he wants, including marabou and glitter, but what he wants is to be seen as a boy. A boy with long hair.
That said, what can she knit? She sees patterns for stuff like tank tops, but folks told her they're too girly. I don't agree, but then my children will suffer through all sorts of gender confusion. Oh well. (I don't have any yet. don't call ACS.)
I suggested those sporty wristbands, although I couldn't tell her what people wear them FOR.
I suggested a necktie cause who doesn't love a five year old in a tie!
Other than a thong, I can't think of anything else that will scream, BOY. I suggested letting me embroider I AM A BOY. A BOY WITH A PENIS on the item when she's done. Whatever.
She wants to knit something for her five year old son, who chooses to grow his hair long but gets irritated with folks who get confused about his gender.
She wants to make him something that won't exacerbate the confusion. This isn't a debate of gender expression. She is WILLING to let him wear whatever he wants, including marabou and glitter, but what he wants is to be seen as a boy. A boy with long hair.
That said, what can she knit? She sees patterns for stuff like tank tops, but folks told her they're too girly. I don't agree, but then my children will suffer through all sorts of gender confusion. Oh well. (I don't have any yet. don't call ACS.)
I suggested those sporty wristbands, although I couldn't tell her what people wear them FOR.
I suggested a necktie cause who doesn't love a five year old in a tie!
Other than a thong, I can't think of anything else that will scream, BOY. I suggested letting me embroider I AM A BOY. A BOY WITH A PENIS on the item when she's done. Whatever.